Hello and welcome to Not An It Girl, a blog about self-discovery and celebrating what makes you, you! I love talking about internet culture and all things influencer-related in my other newsletter, A Lot of You Have Asked. But this newsletter is more personal. I share deep thoughts, cursory thoughts, what gets me through my day, the things I love, and my favorite hobbies.

Speaking of, I love food, reading, and watching TV. I love trying to make myself healthier in mind, body, and spirit so I can show up fully and authentically for my family - which hasn’t been the easiest thing to do since I also work a 9-5 and have two toddlers.

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I want to live a big life that I can be proud of and that will make my children say "yep! that's my mom!" But first I need to rediscover myself and the things I love. Unabashedly myself.


I’m a millennial mom of two, GIF enthusiast, TV snob, and suburban homebody.